The way a Man handles the adversities Life throws at him says a lot about who he is, especially in a relationship.

He can either crawl into his cave and just stay there, pushing away the people who love them the most, creating doubt, fear, insecurity, or they can bring their loved one to stay with him in the cave.

They understand no one can fix their issue but themselves.

But they share their pain, their fear, their tears.

They prefer having you close by to listen, to connect, to just be there.

That’s priceless.

That’s when you know he’s a grown Man.

A Man who knows where he stands and has clear ideas on what he wants from Life and Love.

Someone who assures you that you matter even in his times of storm.

When even amidst his hell, he leaves no room for you to question your presence, making it a point you’re not a burden or unnecessary weight.

Someone who is clear in communicating his thoughts.

That’s maturity.

That’s what shows you without a shadow of a doubt he’s a keeper.

That’s what makes you want to stay.

Because even with every reason to shut down and crash, to cut you lose due to his inability to handle stress or juggling too much at the same time… he will not let you go.

That’s how you know it’s Love.

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Beauty and Humanity are in the eye of the beholder.

Perfection takes on many different shapes and forms.

As many as you wish to see in each Human Being.

Feelings, thoughts, ideas, experiences…

Love knows no boundaries, no skin color, no limited language.

The harmony of Love is in the black, in the white, in everything together.

Shame on those who can’t appreciate the beauty of Humanity in its whole.

Existence is the proof of intended diversity.

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Energy feeding us without us realizing ☀️ it warms the soul and the body. Simple things are there everyday. Do we pay attention? Are we aware of their presence, their beauty, their impact? We’re alive but how much in tune are we? Simple and little things… sun rises and sets everyday. How often do we enjoy its beauty? How much do we appreciate what it can do for us? How do we understand the power of now, the present, the moment in which your mind can be tuned with only one frequency. One thought. A simple thought. It’s the details of each day. It’s the little things everyday. Small big things. Be awake to enjoy them. This is on you. It’s your responsibility to live and own who you are. What does the sunset have to do with who you are? Go find out and let me know. I promise you won’t regret it. Just BE there. 🐚💧☀️🧡💛

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Wherever you are happy… stay.

Stay one day at the time.

Stay to appreciate the moment.

Stay to understand.

With the beauty of the heart rather than the noise of the mind.

Stay and take that chance that once again can either lead you to the surprise you’ve been waiting for so long or lead you to one more disappointment.

Life is about living through discovery.

And, as always, discovery is unpredictable.

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Preferably the ones who make you smile, laugh and dream.

Preferably the ones who understand Life, as Love, aren’t always easy but aren’t supposed to be complicated in its essence.

There may be dramatic moments, but it shouldn’t be a drama in itself.

The ones who don’t give up for any given thing.

The ones who see in you what others can’t.

The ones who see you for your dreams, your fears, for your worth.

And still decide to stay.

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And every now and then, a bit of home luxury.

We deserve to spoil ourselves sometimes and no need for major money spending.

Just use your imagination on what can you do to truly treat yourself (or others) using whatever you have at hand.

It’s so simple, a small gesture can go a long way.

Relax, breath in and breath out.

Take your time.

Show every bit of love in you through the simple things. 💙

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“Every word we speak and every action we perform affects our future. But where do words and actions come from? They all start from our mind. And when we indulge in resentment or obsession or self-righteous thinking, we create several problems for ourselves. First we suffer the immediate pain of those thoughts and emotions, then we act in ways that cause ourselves and others harm. Finally, we reinforce a habit we’d be better without”
Pema Chondron – Welcoming the Unwelcome

How do we relate to failure?

How do we relate to our unwanted surroundings?

Feeling not ok is ok, it’s part of the process of Life, it’s part of who we are.

Embracing the frustration and acknowledging it’s not ok, is part of the emerging awareness.

And that awareness will trigger you to bring out your best self.

Victimization and self-commiseration will not serve us on the long run of our life journey.

Give yourself time to cry and feel destroyed.

It will feel like annihilation around you.

But let’s give ourselves the right to react and slowly stand up.

We can learn from it, become stronger with with, be better prepared.

So let’s not delve in it forever.

Let’s not reinforce those habits.

Let’s mind how we speak to ourselves and others knowing the impact it will have at a later stage in ripple effect.

Let’s be aware of what we can make indestructible in ourselves.

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Make no mistake… it’s the soul.

He may have the looks, the body, the smile… but when you grow out of the illusion state, you understand it’s a whole different league.

We feel frustrated that other people can’t understand how we see the world.

But how often are we interested in understanding the world of those around us?

And when you decide to check what that world looks like… you discover the soul.

And that… that’s what has the power to ignite the fire, to raise the storm and the thunder and to quiet it down.

It’s the magic, it’s the peace.

It’s knowing the Heart is the key and nothing else.

It’s the hidden guidance you were secretly looking for.

It awakens your mind.

And as I deeply believe… awaken my mind, my spirit, my soul, and you’ll awaken my body.

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We hear everyone giving us advise on how to make the most of this quarantine period.

Exercise, eat healthy, meditate, learn a new skill, keep a routine… as much as I value other people’s advise, I also like to use my own thinking.

And I think we all should think for ourselves… think and think a lot on what YOU feel is the best way to spend this time at home.

Take the time to think on what you’d like to get done after this.

Identify what’s really important to you.

Plan it out.

How can you achieve it?

What first few steps can you take?

What’s the benefit it will bring to you?

How will you feel once you reach it?

Can you see it?

Good… that means you’re Alive.

And nowadays, with restricted movements, we know freedom was the taken for granted gift.

Can we not take it for granted ever again?

Can we not take Health – physical, mental and spiritual – for granted?

Think for yourself to come to your own conclusions.

Wether it’s a bright or a dark place in your mind right now, it’s still your place.

Be mindful of healthy advise but never give up on improving your own path.

Your own beliefs.

Your own learnings.

And be grateful for them.

Value them.

They will make you grow if you allow it to be.

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Always one decision away… we all know there are key moments in our lives that will set the pace for the years to come.

Or not… in that moment of yes or no, it’s just a possibility.

It’s either a possibility of success or regret.

And in that moment nothing is certain.

And yet, whatever you decide will affect you.

Even if it’s just a Maybe.

Even if you don’t know.

Not knowing in itself may be a win or a loss… it’s all so uncertain.

It brings you a sense of perspective: uncertainty is how certain you are everything around you is beyond your control.

Yes, decisions will make your life.

Even if we don’t know what the outcome will be.

You take the chance.

And that chance can be painted with happiness or disappointment.

Both will teach you.

The hard part is the learning.

We get caught up in the noise of our own thoughts, we can’t really listen to the learnings.

In a world where we’re told how to live, it’s difficult to truly listen to our own voice.

How do you know what to do?

What if even after so many wrong decisions you still don’t know how to make the right ones?

What if you’re stuck and can’t move forward?

Understand that no one will decide for you.

No one knows the right way.

So sometimes, life takes its course.

And it decides for you.

It gives and it takes at its own discretion.

The decision is how to handle it.

When you don’t know how, just do your best.

Be your best self.

And the answers will come.

In their time.

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