Diluted Beauty

Beauty is in the detail…

I’ve been here so many times and I had never seen it!!

Finally I saw the Unicorn…

How can one be so disconnected on what’s around us to the point of not noticing something you love?

And then… I saw the Piano!!

Beautiful and unique pieces on their own, but discreetly diluted in the wholeness of the lobby… same as people… beautiful on their own but diluted amongst everyone else.

One needs to pay close attention to each person’s unique beauty!

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Respect

There’s a difference between comfort and greed.

Get your priorities right.

We all strive for opportunities and dreams and, if by any generous strike of luck we make it, we should consider ourselves proud.

However, it doesn’t give anyone the right for arrogance and diminishing others.

People are People.

Respect them.

What differs between them is circumstance.

And circumstances easily change.

I believe what you give is what you get, sooner or later.

So never think money, power or a great job will support you forever because on the day it all crumbles, the only thing you’ll have is… People!

So just be nice and respectful.

That’s it.

How hard can it be?!

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Need nothing, Want it all

This describes nowadays women so well…. especially single women.

We all know that if they get to a point in their life in which they’ve done it on their own, it’s because they don’t really need a man to do it.

I admit I’d love to have a man around my household… it would be so cool having someone to hang the pictures on the wall, to put together Ikea furniture, to fix my technology issues… but guess what?!

One way or another, I put everything I needed on the wall and got someone to put together whichever furniture I wasn’t able to.

Only my tech issues remain unresolved (haven’t figured that one out yet, it’s just an inate inability 🤦🏻‍♀️)

It’s proven we don’t need them… however… I think I speak for most of us… we can’t live without them.

We want the caring.

We want that voice.

We want that hug.

We want that look that sees trough you and anticipates your moves and your words.

We want and crave for the connection.

We want to feel desired.

We want to feel like a Woman.

We need nothing and yet we want it all.

But while we don’t get what we want, we keep on doing our thing.

Life is still Life!

With or without you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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A well-behaved Woman

What is a well-behaved woman?

As per whose standards?

A woman is an entire world of emotions and feelings.

And those emotions and feelings may vary as per circumstances, the people around you, your upbringing and even… the moon 🌕 (let’s blame it on the moon 😛🙈).

A woman can be the truest friend, simple, funny, sometimes childish and naive.

She can be a sea of peace, a solid rock, a kind of a clown just to make you laugh.

She can be the best mother, the best friend, the best daughter, the best worker with the angel face… but still… she is a full grown Woman!

There’s a different side to her… she can be in charge of her own body, of her own mind, of her own attitude.

One doesn’t replace the other.

She’s all together.

She’s the Lady and she’s the Lion.

There’s enough space for both to co-exist.

There’s the right timing, the right context and the right people for each one of them.

Versatility is a gift.

As long as you respect yourself and respect others, it’s a welcome gift.

No woman should be judged by accepting her independence, her brains and ability to decide what’s best for her at any moment.

This doesn’t make her a bad human being.

It makes her human. It makes her flawed. It makes her complete. It makes her free.

And eventually, sometimes (and only sometimes), it makes her stupid.

It’s a work in progress.

Important to say not everyone understands the complexity of a grown woman.

Not everyone can keep up.

And that’s when she tends to make herself smaller… simpler… quieter… to fit in a frame it’s definitely not hers but she doesn’t know it yet.

Society and petty minds make her feel contained and at some point she needs to break free.

Ladies out there… please let me know if I’m wrong.

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Moonlight

Tonight is (again) full moon night.

A big, orange perfect circle illuminating the night sky.

They say this specific full moon is good to let go of the past, of anything that doesn’t suit you anymore nor does any good to you.

So I decided to write up some of the goals I wish for, which imply I let go of old (bad) habits… I’m trying.

I thought wether I should share this or not but then again, I shared so many personal thoughts already, figured these ones wouldn’t hurt either.

Starting with self-confidence. I want to be more self-confident in my core (not my abs… well, those ones to, actually). I seem super confident in my daily life. I seem in control pretty much always (at least to those who don’t know me that well). Well I want to exude self-confidence and trust myself, regardless of third party opinions. I want my own opinion on myself to grow and be stronger.

I want to be optimistic by default. I want to believe in a better future. I want to believe deep down that the best is really yet to come.

I want to distinguish good people who will add value to my life from people who will only drain my energy and eventually take advantage of my insecurities.

I want to be clear minded to be able to make plans… not just dreaming wide awake… I need a plan. And can’t really draw it. Too much noise, thoughts and questions in my mind… too much of everything in my tiny simple brain.

I want to find a purpose… more than being a nice and respecting person to others. I just need to find out what and how (simple no?!).

I want to free myself from any weight or blockage (conscious or unconscious) that’s keeping me from moving forward.

I want to be wiser. More understanding. Calmer.

I want to be able to love my family even at a distance and show them that I care.

I want to be able to accept life as it is. Accept what might never be (this one has been the hardest one).

And finally… I need to forgive myself for all the stupid, silly, uncalled for things/behaviors I can’t control sometimes. They don’t define me. They are however a part of me. And I need to live with it.

I can only do my best to be a better person but I will never, ever, be perfect or close to it.

I wish the Moon, the Universe, God, whatever mysterious force pulling everything together, will listen to my prayers.

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Real is Rare.

I think of this so and so often… and I question myself… what exactly do I mean with “real”?

It seems sometimes that “real deal” is only in your mind. Although it’s real for you, anyone from the outside, with an imparcial view on it, can tell you… it’s not “real”.

So, since I already found out our mind plays tricks on us, I would expect myself to be able to “control” it… It’s one of those things you’re aware of, but controlling it is a different story. Eventually, events will prove it not to be real… not on your mind and not in the real world.

However… I’d like to speak about the other dimension of “real”. The objective one.

The one you can see, feel, touch, smell!!

When you meet someone, how do you know what they say is real?

How do you know they’re keeping themselves for you only (especially in dating app era)?

How do you know their actions are meaningful?

You don’t!

Not until you get to know one another really well… and how often do you get to that point?

Maybe never, maybe it turns out that “it wasn’t real”.

People lie.

People are not interested in getting past your flaws, your concerns, your insecurities. The deeper, intense you.

It scares them.

People want the “easy”, bubbly you.

They want the silky pink clouds only.

They forget that all of your concerns are there for a reason. They are there because life taught you that you need to “protect yourself”.

They don’t realize that after gaining your trust…. they’ll have the easiest and most bubbly smile ever.

The most loyal and real, heartfelt smile.

The kind of smile that translates a hopeful soul and not just a smile anymore.

That’s it.

And in the end, you just want the truth.

You just want their real self.

You just want a real connection.

And that… is rare.

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Trust or distrust?

“The cruelest way to hurt someone is to make them believe they mean something to you and then you leave”.

How many times have you fallen into this feeling?

How many times have you been played with, manipulated, lied to in a perfect style?

The problem is that you never really know until it’s too late to realize what’s hitting you.

You want to be an optimist and so you believe. And believe. How do we know?

What are the signs? How do you know wether to trust?

How do you know when it’s the real deal?

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