Those Days vs These Days

If I had to pick a soundtrack to picture “the now”, I’d go with “These are the days of our lives”. Even though those were the days of our lives, when everything was light, easy, simple, fun and you could hear yourself laugh out loud, you need to focus on today. And so these are the days of our lives. Often moments of change bring silence and introspection to acknowledge, digest and overcome the fear, the risk, the nothingness. Moments of resilience to transform the nothingness into something in time. Or maybe it leads nowhere and you go back to where you started. Either way, you took a stand. It doesn’t always go well. If you fall, you’ll know it’s because you decided to walk when you could just stay put. And while you’re doing it, you get to be yourself, with the pride of risking the hard road.
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Don’t let it be you

It’s a horrible feeling when you get stuck into a cross road and you haven’t got the slightest idea on where to turn to.

You stare at it as if it was blank.

You expect some kind of guidance, some kind of signal… something that allows you to make a decision which you believe is the right one.

You’ve got nothing to hold on to but your health, your family, your loved ones and your friends (and if you’ve got all of this, you already have lots to be grateful for).

When you feel invisible when someone should be able to see you, someone should be able to see your spark, your light, your potential. But they don’t.

So you have to see yourself, and your light, and your potential.

You have to hold on to the vision of your future and your dreams for that glimpse of hope that makes you push through the tears, the loneliness and the disbelief.

You need somehow to find the strength and faith to continue one day at the time. And each day starts with one simple step.

Forward.

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Half of Everything

Wouldn’t it be amazing if we could see everyone by their whole being?

Or would it be too overwhelming and become almost dangerous if we could see not only everyone’s full beauty but also everyone’s full shadows?

When we can barely “see” our own wholeness?

When we can barely deal with it in a healthy way?

I like to think we can see the better half… but I know the rest is there.

It’s a matter of someone wanting to show that other half and us wanting to uncover it.

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Ground Yourself.

The uncertainty takes your breath away.

In a bad way.

You’re breathing but not really inhaling and exhaling.

It’s the body doing its physical ability to breath.

It’s never the deep breath, the one that sighs your relief.

It’s the hole just beneath the stomach that even though it’s not evident, it keeps subtly reminding you it’s always there.

And every now and then you become aware of everything your body is telling you, so you try and quiet it down.

You sink in the fact you’re still alive and your body is healthy and continuing their vital functions on its own.

You remember that there are still good people who do good for no reason.

Who have simple but kind gestures, helping within their reach with no expectation of receiving anything back (as I’ve recently had evidence of).

You appreciate those people.

You appreciate the simplicity.

You appreciate the kindness, especially when unsolicited.


You know sooner or later it will all be well again but until then it’s just an unspoken pain and hidden fear.

It’s the primal instinct that lies with the need for control of the basic needs.

You need to ground yourself to call on the certainty of the right thing at the right time, for the right reason, for the good your higher self.

You ground yourself in order to let go.

You get your feet deep in the sand as a reminder that it’s your journey and the lessons that karma, for some reason, wants you to learn.

You ground yourself so that you can fly.

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Twist. Turn. Improvise.

Twist.

Turn.

Improvise.

Life demands it.

When life pulls up a few tricks, you have no other option but to adjust.

You’ll have to twist and flex as per the events around you.

Which way should you turn?

How can you improvise?

What skills do you have that can help you finding a new path?

Your path?!

In what way can you make yourself useful? To others? To yourself?

By being of service to others, we’re of service to ourselves.

By helping others, we help ourselves.

By loving others, we love ourselves.

And when we love ourselves… we go through the process.

We fall, we cry… and we get back up, and keep walking.

Even if we don’t know where to.

In the meantime, heal… heal with sun, sea, friends.

We heal on an unknown path.

We understand we can take on the world.

And maybe we can change it.

One person at the time.

Starting with ourselves.

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How do you know?

The way a Man handles the adversities Life throws at him says a lot about who he is, especially in a relationship.

He can either crawl into his cave and just stay there, pushing away the people who love them the most, creating doubt, fear, insecurity, or they can bring their loved one to stay with him in the cave.

They understand no one can fix their issue but themselves.

But they share their pain, their fear, their tears.

They prefer having you close by to listen, to connect, to just be there.

That’s priceless.

That’s when you know he’s a grown Man.

A Man who knows where he stands and has clear ideas on what he wants from Life and Love.

Someone who assures you that you matter even in his times of storm.

When even amidst his hell, he leaves no room for you to question your presence, making it a point you’re not a burden or unnecessary weight.

Someone who is clear in communicating his thoughts.

That’s maturity.

That’s what shows you without a shadow of a doubt he’s a keeper.

That’s what makes you want to stay.

Because even with every reason to shut down and crash, to cut you lose due to his inability to handle stress or juggling too much at the same time… he will not let you go.

That’s how you know it’s Love.

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Intended Existence

Beauty and Humanity are in the eye of the beholder.

Perfection takes on many different shapes and forms.

As many as you wish to see in each Human Being.

Feelings, thoughts, ideas, experiences…

Love knows no boundaries, no skin color, no limited language.

The harmony of Love is in the black, in the white, in everything together.

Shame on those who can’t appreciate the beauty of Humanity in its whole.

Existence is the proof of intended diversity.

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The Simple Things. Again.

Energy feeding us without us realizing ☀️ it warms the soul and the body. Simple things are there everyday. Do we pay attention? Are we aware of their presence, their beauty, their impact? We’re alive but how much in tune are we? Simple and little things… sun rises and sets everyday. How often do we enjoy its beauty? How much do we appreciate what it can do for us? How do we understand the power of now, the present, the moment in which your mind can be tuned with only one frequency. One thought. A simple thought. It’s the details of each day. It’s the little things everyday. Small big things. Be awake to enjoy them. This is on you. It’s your responsibility to live and own who you are. What does the sunset have to do with who you are? Go find out and let me know. I promise you won’t regret it. Just BE there. 🐚💧☀️🧡💛

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Wherever You Are Happy

Wherever you are happy… stay.

Stay one day at the time.

Stay to appreciate the moment.

Stay to understand.

With the beauty of the heart rather than the noise of the mind.

Stay and take that chance that once again can either lead you to the surprise you’ve been waiting for so long or lead you to one more disappointment.

Life is about living through discovery.

And, as always, discovery is unpredictable.

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Keep Them Close

Preferably the ones who make you smile, laugh and dream.

Preferably the ones who understand Life, as Love, aren’t always easy but aren’t supposed to be complicated in its essence.

There may be dramatic moments, but it shouldn’t be a drama in itself.

The ones who don’t give up for any given thing.

The ones who see in you what others can’t.

The ones who see you for your dreams, your fears, for your worth.

And still decide to stay.

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