Valentine’s

Whoever can make you laugh for real, out loud, showing all your teeth and almost making you pee in your pants… they make you happy!

Whoever understands your soul, your brain, your pain but also your shining light… they make you happy!

So make them happy too!

Starting with a lovely breakfast in bed!

A morning of sweet wild loving, pillow talk and embracing that unique piece of time in which you’re ultimately free and ecstatically happy!

Prepare his favorite food, take him out on an adventure or a super nice place.

Prepare a simple surprise but full of meaningful details!

Make him feel like your sunshine! Give him one!

Be your full self… by now he knows your sweet surrender is in itself your biggest gift… but only if he makes you happy!

“Make me happy… I’ll make you happier!”

🌻🌞💫⚡️🔥🌈💙

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Still Me

The truth is we change when we want to change or when we think it’s the right time to change.

January 1 comes with dreams of big resolutions, dreams of change and whatever big plans we intend to implement because “new year, new me”… well, case to say “new year, still me”.

No major sudden shifts throughout this month, it’s definitely still me.

All my resolutions will happen whenever I can make them happen.

Maybe I require the right mindset and the right circumstances. And then…

Then I’ll be able to say it’s a new me, regardless of time of the year…

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Beauty and Brains

All is said… and rightly said! 🙄

I guess being honest in this “relationship game” doesn’t get you that far because we never know how the other person is interpreting our honesty.

Maybe they’re getting scared or intimidated.

If you shut up, you’re not true to yourself and can’t really digest… plus it’s like you don’t have a voice and just sliding by to see what’s happening next on “the other side”.

Do we always need to wait for that?

My conclusion is that the one person who will not take it as a game and understands what you’re saying instead of feeling intimidated or scared, will be the one with their brains in the right place!

And that’s exactly what you’re looking for!

Beauty and Brains, please! 😜

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Sweet and Sour

Does this happen to you?

You’re the most peaceful person until something really gets in your nerves?

But really really on your nerves?

And some people just don’t seem to get when you’re reaching that stage so they still push… and suddenly you’re not yourself anymore and become an ugly, impolite beastie version of yourself.

Well, as much as we don’t like it, it’s all part of you are.

You can be sweet and sour.

And as long as you’re sweet, all is fine. If you turn sour… 🙄The good thing is you just need some time to recover and you’re back to sweet again!

I believe in not turning sour but I also believe no one is perfect and it’s likely to happen to us all some times.

People just need to press the right buttons.

And it’s important for those who know you to stand by you even when you turn sour.

It means they accept you for who you are even if they don’t agree with you.

They don’t judge you, they don’t blame you for it, they don’t take it against you.

They just know something has really upset you and it will go away in no time.

That’s unconditional presence.

That’s respecting who you are.

Doesn’t give you the right to be rude or an idiot with the people who understand you best but at least you know you’re accepted with your flaws.

And that is worth so much!!

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The Tornado

What are we supposed to do when we don’t know?

You may have an idea but not an accurate measurable goal?

When it’s a tornado in your mind which you can’t control?

When you’re between living “the now” or planning and saving for the future?

What do you do when no one seems to connect the way you need them to connect?

What do you do when you feel oblivious to your surroundings and just want everything to suddenly fall into place because you don’t know how to do it?

How do you overcome the frustration, the uneasiness, the doubt, the fear?

What if what you’re doing is just not enough?

What if it’s never enough?

What if you’ll never make enough money?

What if you never find a partner?

What if you never have kids?

What if you never find yourself fulfilled in your job?

What if you find yourself with no friends?

Can someone please remove the “what if”s that are consuming you and preventing you from behaving normally?

I know you feel haunted but… can you just trust a bit more, breath a bit more, cry a bit more so you can laugh later on?

Can you please understand everyone goes through phases of feeling lost and feeling hopeless?

You’re not the only one.

And it gets better.

It always does.

It’s exhausting, get your rest but please keep your eyes forward and your hope strong.

Keep your day-to-day in place with a smile.

Keep focused on your job and your friends.

Do the tiny things that make you feel better.

And eventually your mind will clear.

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The Male Friend

Ok… here we go… yes…. it’s possible!!

At least in my humble opinion which is based in my experience.

The man/woman friendship isn’t really that complicated.

Some people, regardless of man or woman, just like making it complicated.

To be honest, a male friend gives you always a different perspective of life and all matters.

And it’s not any male friend.

One who cares.

One who is truly a friend.

Someone you can rely on.

Someone with whom you feel comfortable enough to talk about any given thing.

Deep and meaningful stuff or simply random stuff.

The key thing is both being on the same page. Where both feel the same.

I feel I lost the opportunity to have good friends because they can’t or won’t understand it’s possible.

It doesn’t need a hidden feeling praying for it to evolve one day. If it evolves for both, great! That’s awesome!

Talk about it, figure it out. But that’s not the final goal.

The goal is the friendship itself.

It’s whatever at ease you have with him.

The same vibe, the same kind of connection and understanding, the empathy…

So why not take it to the next level if it’s so perfect?

Because the next level is not an obligation!

And again, if you take it to the next level, I’m all in favor, as long as it’s what both want.

These friendships seem really hard because one or another is “predicting” the others behavior, thinking of something different, so they run.

Or maybe they really don’t want to be friends simply because they’re looking for something else.

I don’t know.

Humans are too complex to understand.

But that’s why friends don’t really need to understand you or agree.

They just need to be there.

To listen to your babbling.

These men almost become women when listening to you and you pretty much become a guy when listening to them…

And it’s pretty cool to see life from his point of view.

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Take Your Time

We all have times in which we don’t recognize ourselves.

Our energy levels are low, tired all the time, not really in the mood for anything, completely and utterly drained.

We can’t be at our best all the time.

So take your time to recover.

It’s a natural process.

You’ll know when you’re back to your usual self, when everything looks bright again and you know everything will be fine.

Those breaks are important to heal whatever is in need to do so, maybe we’re just not aware of it.

So get some rest… don’t stop but slow down and when you feel ready, pick up the pace.

Just don’t indulge in self pity forever.

That’s not the way.

If you don’t fix it, no one else will.

So rest, but don’t quit.

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