Overthinking Again

At some point you need to decide if you rather overthink and go crazy, unsettled, unease and anxious because of something you can’t control or… if you prefer letting go of those haunting fears and live one day at the time.

You still don’t know what’s coming and you still can’t control it but at least that pain at the bottom of your stomach will lessen. And you’ll relax a bit and see what you have today will have to do to keep you together instead of crumbling apart.

And realize what you have today is already so much more than other people have.

You have no choice but to move forward.

Fix it by letting go.

Fix it by focusing on taking care of yourself since no one else will.

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Breaking the Pattern

How much do we give and what do we expose ourselves to in exchange of a tiny bit of attention?

We put ourselves out there in different ways expecting something and in the end we receive bread crumbs…

If we know we’re getting bread crumbs, why do we continue chasing it?

Why is it so easy for us to give, knowing we will not receive back?

And why is it so hard for us to break that pattern?

Why is it so hard to stop looking for attention when we know attention is something you can’t look for.

It should come freely and spontaneously.

The problem is that we all crave for it, even if it’s not there (especially when it’s not there).

And when we crave too much, that’s when we give it all to the wrong people, in the wrong way.

Ask yourself: how much will I be affected?

It’s a cost/benefit question… Is it worth it?

Will it be worth it in the end, when it’s time for the aftermath?

What can you change to preserve yourself?

What’s the first baby step you can take?

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The Beauty and Beast

Watching the news and finding out about Notre Dame fire… mixed feelings!

It’s such an iconic masterpiece worthy of admiration and gaze! It’s a beauty and we all know it. It’s a piece of lost culture…

Fundraising is already in place to rebuild it.

Which makes me think of a side reality.

France is home to one of the biggest refugee camps out there. Official numbers point 3000 displaced people, field information towards 7000…

What used to be an improvised but stable “facility” was destroyed by authorities in an attempt for them to go. Obviously it didn’t work.

It still doesn’t work (they still smash tents, clothes and few existing shoes).

It’s an ugly truth but it’s real. It’s a beast.

With utmost respect for the beautiful monument and centuries of History it carries even as a European symbol…

As sad as I feel, I feel more saddened and lost when it comes to human lives and the circumstances in which they’re living.

Should every French donate a day’s salary, every wealthy family and corporate donate just a few millions to make it better to whom has nothing?

To return a bit of dignity and respect to Human Life?

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I’ll keep you Wild

Self explanatory…

And still I have so much to say about it…

Wouldn’t even dream of trying to describe how I would keep you wild…

Because it’s not about how… it’s about what.

It’s about a feeling,

it’s about truth,

it’s about non-judgemental and no fear eye contact,

it’s about unspoken words simply because they’re not needed.

Ultimately, it’s about getting lost in inherent trust.

It’s about being yourself with no prejudice.

It’s about your heart, and most of all… it’s about freedom.

It’s about Love.

I’ll keep you young, wild and free at heart.

I’ll keep you true to yourself.

As long as you’re true to me.

As long as you stay.

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Alone vs Lonely

Wise words by a beautiful soul.

How often do you feel alone in the middle of a crowd?

Or even in a relationship in which even though you have a partner, you still feel alone?

It’s like you’re invisible to everyone around you.

It hurts the most when it’s people whom you love dearly.

It becomes even more evident if you spend a weekend entirely on your own and don’t feel alone, especially if you’re doing something you love.

Being alone is definitely not the same as feeling alone. Loneliness is out there.

It might affect anyone.

It’s not about being single or married, having plenty of friends or socializing a lot.

It’s about the human connections and bonds you actually have (or not) with a few people.

The anchor people in your Life.

Your guiding lighthouses.

Loneliness can drive you crazy.

It can make you feel meaningless and useless and that’s a dangerous thing.

As you feel you’re loosing your grip, you need to find something to keep you connected… to yourself, to others.

A purpose.

Something that lights up a feeling in you.

And maybe, just maybe, that loneliness will faint a bit.

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Everybody is the Guru

The thing is not everyone knows, or is willing, to listen.

Whenever we listen to understand rather than to reply, we learn.

We learn other people’s point of view, opinions, feelings and we remind ourselves the world doesn’t evolve around us.

It keeps us humble while processing other people’s pain, happiness, frustration, empathy.

We learn we aren’t the only ones dealing with something.

We aren’t the only ones with dreams, doubts and big questions.

And we hope to learn a bit from everyone. Just to be sure no one is sliding by Life as a mere succession of events.

Listen.

Learn.

Let it impact you in a good way, in a bad way.

But don’t stay indifferent.

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Bad Decisions

How many bad decisions do we need to make?!

Again and again, you bang your head on the wall because of a bad decision.

A decision you knew from the beginning was going to be bad. But you just have to try.

Just to be sure it’s as bad as it really looks.

They are irresistible.

Like a magnet drawing you into it.

It’s ok.

Each time you seriously bang your head, I’m sure you seriously learn something.

And hopefully, bad decisions will be something you’ll learn to stay away from… or maybe not!… 😐🤷🏻‍♀️

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