Laughter is underestimated

First of all, let’s define weirdo… 😅 first things first 🤗

Ok… so I can’t really define it but I know that there are a few boundaries for the weirdness.

As long as both meet halfway in each other’s weirdness, all is good!

That said… laughter is the most underestimated thing ever!

If someone makes you laugh is because they know you well enough to understand how you’ll react and what you’ll find funny or not.

It means they get your sense of humor and are willing to make good use of it.

It means they recognize in you someone who also gets their sense of humor and therefore, it’s easier to build that mutual trust to just be yourself with no fear of judgmental BS.

They are comfortable enough to make a joke around you, just go with it! 🤷🏻‍♀️

Second, to make a joke, you actually need to use your brain. Throw a bit of sarcasm in it every now and then.

But not always, as nobody wants to lead a sarcastic life all the time.

Humor usually comes in an honest way, so if you have that ability, keep it. 🤓

Third, laughter is an aphrodisiac.

It brings out the best in you and in him.

It’s that simple.

It makes you feel alive and skip the usual routine numbness and that is always appealing, not necessarily in a sexual way. However, you never know.

It’s proven the way to a woman’s body is through her mind. And laughter awakens your mind. 😇

Laughter doesn’t need labels. It’s just a nice feeling to keep within.

Now seriously tell me… how many people make you laugh to the point you almost pee your pants?

How long has it been since you laughed that hard?

The kind of laughter that is real and heartfelt.

Not the one you have to go along with to look good or to suit the circumstances.

Sometimes I might exaggerate but I’m just trying to make a point. Do you get my point, speaking of?

I hope you do.

In summary… if the right weirdo (it’s not just about any, unfortunately) comes your way… just release the weirdo in you too.

Maybe you’ll find your way to each other, who knows?

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Year after year

Well… it was my birthday again!

You get older as a sign of living!!

I’ve been doing a bit of an exercise for quite some time now.

I worry about my age.

I worry a lot.

I worry about what it means regarding a few roads that may start closing permanently.

I don’t feel my age.

I feel 10 years younger which makes me live in an illusion.

I feel the age pressure but I don’t feel connected to it.

I feel I still have a full life ahead.

But then the crazy little bastards in your mind (the so called thoughts) make their grand appearance and tell you it’s not that simple.

Time is running out.

So you think of everything you dreamed of doing versus what you can get done by yourself.

You can still be yourself.

You can still look forward to spending time with someone who can just appreciate you for who you are.

Without caring if you’re pretty enough, skinny enough, strong enough, smart enough… perfect enough.

Someone to whom you are simply enough.

It doesn’t necessarily mean a love relationship.

Can be a friend with whom you can just chill, laugh, talk and be there for each other (though the perks of a love relationship would be welcomed)!

Be both the crazy you and the quiet you.

Both the angel and the devil.

But you do need to set aside the panic of age pressure and social needs.

Focus on acceptance.

Of you. As you are.

It’s not as easy as it seems.

It requires plenty of self-work.

When you accept your flawed self, you’ll learn how to accept others as they are.

Year by year.

Earn them.

Respect them.

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Where’s Your Vibe?

Vibrate higher!

I believe that your true self vibrates at a higher frequency.

Your true self is the happy, chilled, carefree, out loud laughing soul who makes fun of yourself.

The thing here is your true self starts hiding in virtue of a few life lessons, maybe a few emotional beatings and downfalls which instill deep fear.

So, bit by bit, your high vibration, your good vibe starts transforming.

You notice you don’t laugh that loud anymore.

Your shining light seems to not be there anymore.

You start wondering why.

How?

Where did your true self go?

It’s not only the emotional scars who take it away.

It’s also about people.

People who are always down will pull you down.

So do your best to pull them back up.

But if they don’t let you at all, don’t let them drag you down.

Do your best for yourself.

Bring back your glow, even if you have no one to show it to.

It’s yours.

It’s who you are!

Laugh, be the silly in the room, be the one with the bad jokes.

But BE.

Be present.

Be alive.

Be free.

Be free from judgment, to yourself and others.

Don’t expect.

Don’t drown in apathy.

Don’t let life pass you by.

Regret what you do instead of what you don’t.

So where will you start to get your shining smile back?

What will you do to start reconnecting?

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You Deserve Them

Orgasms and laughs!

Every woman needs them both, especially if they are combined!

Do not be naive in underestimating the power of one and another!

You are a woman!

And as a full grown woman, you’re in charge of yourself.

I’d throw in the equation Love, interesting conversations and cuddles… travel in between, mix everything together and there you go!

It’s Magic!

You’re a happy woman!

Sounds really simple doesn’t it?

So how come it’s so complicated? 🧐

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Enjoy the journey

Nothing more to say…

Yes, I get repetitive talking about Love… (it is called Love and Everyday Affairs… so I’m entitled to talk a lot about it, right?)

Sometimes I feel a bit lame because of that but it so happens it’s what I believe in as the ultimate goal in Life.

And Love has within itself different meanings for different people.

Just enjoy the journey, the learnings and eventually the accomplishments!

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The Magical Things in this World

Keeping it simple.

In Life, in Love, with friends.

It’s the simplest and yet most complicated finding someone who values the same things you do.

The small, everyday things.

They are a natural show.

They are a symbol of Life and Beauty.

They deserve to be appreciated by what they are.

So if you have friends like these… don’t take them for granted either.

Appreciate them also by what they are.

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All the Right Places

Maybe you have been shamed for not being skinny enough, maybe you were told your personality was too strong (or too sweet), maybe they thought you were too much of a dreamer, maybe they made you feel, generally, like you weren’t enough. Well one thing is for sure… the right one will know what’s in front of him.

He will have the harmony, sense of humor, common sense (never underestimate common sense, as I learned it’s NOT a given 🙄) and brains to value you, to understand you.

It’s hard keeping the belief alive.

But if it’s gone, you’ll feel empty and hollow… and there’s something a human being should never feel… emptiness.

So you need that extra bit of faith, that optimism to keep you going… don’t let go of it.

It keeps you lighter, happier and smoother!

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