When you wait for no one to travel with you, for no one to buy you gifts or your favorite treat, for no one to motivate you to go for your dreams or make plans with you… it can be a pretty lonely life.
It can be a real threat to your mental (and physical) health.
Yes, you make your own plans. You make your own decisions with no consultancy.
No one will be there to have your back. If you fall, you fall on your own.
There’s no soft landing.
(If you’re lucky enough to have a few good friends, keep them. They will be invaluable throughout your journey, they do soften the blows a bit)
It’s rough, it’s tough but you always got it.
It’s just the way it’s always been, the way life taught you.
How strong do you need to be to love yourself like you’re not waiting for someone else to do it?
How much do you have to believe in your self worth?
How grounded do you need to be to try and evaluate every falling piece of your life and stick them all back together?
How much Hope do you need to breath in and relax?
How much effort do you require to let go of that excruciating need to control the course of your life?
To face how it should be vs how it really is.
It is what it is.
Love yourself, improve yourself, work on yourself, treat yourself.
For no one other than yourself.
You need it.
You deserve it.
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