Healing

It’s easier said than done, we all know it.

The challenge is in achieving it.

You may know exactly what you want and how to get it, but the daily struggle with your own thoughts is real.

Thoughts based on bad past experiences block you without you being aware of it…

How do you know how to avoid self sabotage?

How do you even recognize you’re sabotaging yourself?

How do you replace fear with hope?

Even if you don’t know how to do it on the practical side, keep these guidelines in your heart and follow them in a way which feels right.

Even if others are aligned with their own views on the world, be one who can be real and simple.

In other words, do your best to keep your mind clean… again, easier said than done, I know.

But try.

And try.

And then try again.

Maybe it will gradually be lighter and clearer.
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healing

The Give It All

I don’t know how to love less.

I don’t know how to be less.

I don’t know how to raise my walls permanently.

I wish I did.

I wish I could kind of love.

Maybe everything would be easier.

I don’t allow many people in. But when I do, I give it my all.

And that’s a mistake.

But how to contain yourself?

How to constantly monitor your energy?

How to constantly keep it ‘normal’?

Within ‘reasonable’?

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too much

Different.

Different.

You can’t really tell exactly what’s different yet but you can feel it.

It may be that you’re wandering, and finally someone finds you and grabs your hand as if they knew you need to be guided, almost like a child.

The “different” thing may be that he mentally holds your hand and navigates you through the multiple roads until you find your way through your insecurities and distrust.

You can almost hear him whisper “I got you”.

And for someone who’s always in control, having someone to guide you is extremely appealing.

It’s the Pause button on “walls up” until you figure out if it’s a Stop or a Play again on building those walls.

Only time will tell.

You prepare for the worst but hope for the best.

The mindset isn’t easy.

You keep trying to hold something back to keep some form of “walls up”.

You know you can’t pour your endless amount of love just like that.

That endless amount of love and caring are to be earned, and not a given.

That’s your biggest gift.

If he doesn’t realize that, then that “different” was probably just a mirage.

But be willing to give until you’ve been given a reason not to.

Especially when you’re a giver, you can’t really do it any other way.

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givermindset

Not Listening

When someone isn’t willing to listen, there’s no point in trying to speak.

As much as you know you can show them the way, as much as you know you’re right deep in your soul… if they’re not ready or willing to listen… you’ll just be throwing out what will feel like frustration.

It will only lead to lost words and unheard feelings which will make you look like the crazy one.

Remove yourself from that picture. 🌟
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not listening

Remember This…

Seems simple enough doesn’t it?

So why can’t we do it just like that?

Why is it so hard focusing on the present?

But we keep on trying, it’s part of our growth!

The more you make plans, the less they seem to work.

I suggest focusing in making it one day at the time.

With a smile.

With the best version of you.

Because tomorrow is only tomorrow.
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anxiety future

Earthgrounding

Let’s get the good energies flowing… earth grounding… charging! 💛

Sand, Sea, Sunset… what else to connect to for Peace and Love? ☮️💟

Where else to find that balance? ☯️

Enjoy the beauty, the peace, the cleansing… ready to start again! 🌞🌻

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earthgrounding

Is it Really?

How do you know?

How do you know if the past isn’t going to repeat itself?

Is it one more learning reference?

You’ve got so many “places of reference” that they do indeed become “places of residence”… when those learnings are imprinted so deep within your brain, it’s like they translate into permanent fear.

They bring out all of your insecurities, the ones that chase you even if you want to make them go away.

How strong and confident do you need to be to believe again?

To let go of that restraint?

How can you tell if it’s time to be happy or just one more hoax?

Why can’t it be simple?

Why does it always have to be a glimpse only?

They come and they go. And again. Same roller coaster. Same ride. Same loss.

But because you want it so much, you feel it so much, you fight for it.

Deep down, the belief is still stronger than the destruction.

So you take the chance.

You put yourself out there to take the fall again.

And you choose to trust.

Or maybe just hope.

Hope that he won’t let you fall.

And if he does let you fall, just like the others, you trust that you’ll be able to pick up your million broken pieces one more time.

It’s not even the pain.

It’s the sense of lost hope.

But you won’t know for sure until you take that leap of faith.

How many self-sabotage masks are you using to keep you right where you are?

How will you tame your fears?

You just need to breath in, breath out, and believe, don’t you?

You just need to turn them into dreams and follow your heart.

If you fall… you’ll get back up.

As always.

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