First of all, let’s define weirdo… 😅 first things first 🤗
Ok… so I can’t really define it but I know that there are a few boundaries for the weirdness.
As long as both meet halfway in each other’s weirdness, all is good!
That said… laughter is the most underestimated thing ever!
If someone makes you laugh is because they know you well enough to understand how you’ll react and what you’ll find funny or not.
It means they get your sense of humor and are willing to make good use of it.
It means they recognize in you someone who also gets their sense of humor and therefore, it’s easier to build that mutual trust to just be yourself with no fear of judgmental BS.
They are comfortable enough to make a joke around you, just go with it! 🤷🏻♀️
Second, to make a joke, you actually need to use your brain. Throw a bit of sarcasm in it every now and then.
But not always, as nobody wants to lead a sarcastic life all the time.
Humor usually comes in an honest way, so if you have that ability, keep it. 🤓
Third, laughter is an aphrodisiac.
It brings out the best in you and in him.
It’s that simple.
It makes you feel alive and skip the usual routine numbness and that is always appealing, not necessarily in a sexual way. However, you never know.
It’s proven the way to a woman’s body is through her mind. And laughter awakens your mind. 😇
Laughter doesn’t need labels. It’s just a nice feeling to keep within.
Now seriously tell me… how many people make you laugh to the point you almost pee your pants?
How long has it been since you laughed that hard?
The kind of laughter that is real and heartfelt.
Not the one you have to go along with to look good or to suit the circumstances.
Sometimes I might exaggerate but I’m just trying to make a point. Do you get my point, speaking of?
I hope you do.
In summary… if the right weirdo (it’s not just about any, unfortunately) comes your way… just release the weirdo in you too.
Maybe you’ll find your way to each other, who knows?
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