Cake and Attention

Welll… yeah!! 😅😅

Key words… CAKE… and ATTENTION! As simple as that.

If you’re a girl, you want attention, if you’re a woman, you still want attention.

It’s inherent to the human being as I believe the male species also requires attention.

They just might live better without the cake.

The problem is when we don’t get the attention we crave for. How do we deal with it?

I dare saying we literally seek for it, and when we do so, we make a big mistake (or many mistakes actually)!

I also dare saying most times we hope for the attention of one particular person… if it doesn’t come… drama!

All alarms are on!

And you make it worst by looking for the attention… (let’s forget the cake for now).

You know that if that person is silent rather than giving you the attention he once gladly provided before, he’s gone.

You just don’t want to really face it.

The “attention habit” is twisted.

You get used to that… it’s the difference between full on and gone.

No in between 🙄 it seems it’s the way life goes (so they say) and you need to live with it.

So here comes the seriously get real part…

YOU are ENOUGH.

It’s no one’s job to show you that.

It’s nobody’s job to validate you.

That’s YOUR job.

In or out of a relationship, you are still an individual with your own core belief and values system.

If another soul is tuned in with that, consider yourself a super privileged human.

If not… consider yourself super privileged anyway.

It means you have the brains and the strength to understand it and not allow anyone to mess with it.

Understanding and compromising don’t mean replacement or annulment.

Humility doesn’t mean being stepped on.

Kindness doesn’t mean weakness.

So, whenever you feel in need of attention… have that cake… and then hit the gym.

Give attention to yourself.

It’s a lifetime’s job understanding how you can take care of yourself… but trust me…

It’s possible 😉

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