Love and Everyday Affairs

Well… it was my birthday again!

You get older as a sign of living!!

I’ve been doing a bit of an exercise for quite some time now.

I worry about my age.

I worry a lot.

I worry about what it means regarding a few roads that may start closing permanently.

I don’t feel my age.

I feel 10 years younger which makes me live in an illusion.

I feel the age pressure but I don’t feel connected to it.

I feel I still have a full life ahead.

But then the crazy little bastards in your mind (the so called thoughts) make their grand appearance and tell you it’s not that simple.

Time is running out.

So you think of everything you dreamed of doing versus what you can get done by yourself.

You can still be yourself.

You can still look forward to spending time with someone who can just appreciate you for who you are.

Without caring if you’re pretty enough, skinny enough, strong enough, smart enough… perfect enough.

Someone to whom you are simply enough.

It doesn’t necessarily mean a love relationship.

Can be a friend with whom you can just chill, laugh, talk and be there for each other (though the perks of a love relationship would be welcomed)!

Be both the crazy you and the quiet you.

Both the angel and the devil.

But you do need to set aside the panic of age pressure and social needs.

Focus on acceptance.

Of you. As you are.

It’s not as easy as it seems.

It requires plenty of self-work.

When you accept your flawed self, you’ll learn how to accept others as they are.

Year by year.

Earn them.

Respect them.

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Vibrate higher!

I believe that your true self vibrates at a higher frequency.

Your true self is the happy, chilled, carefree, out loud laughing soul who makes fun of yourself.

The thing here is your true self starts hiding in virtue of a few life lessons, maybe a few emotional beatings and downfalls which instill deep fear.

So, bit by bit, your high vibration, your good vibe starts transforming.

You notice you don’t laugh that loud anymore.

Your shining light seems to not be there anymore.

You start wondering why.

How?

Where did your true self go?

It’s not only the emotional scars who take it away.

It’s also about people.

People who are always down will pull you down.

So do your best to pull them back up.

But if they don’t let you at all, don’t let them drag you down.

Do your best for yourself.

Bring back your glow, even if you have no one to show it to.

It’s yours.

It’s who you are!

Laugh, be the silly in the room, be the one with the bad jokes.

But BE.

Be present.

Be alive.

Be free.

Be free from judgment, to yourself and others.

Don’t expect.

Don’t drown in apathy.

Don’t let life pass you by.

Regret what you do instead of what you don’t.

So where will you start to get your shining smile back?

What will you do to start reconnecting?

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Orgasms and laughs!

Every woman needs them both, especially if they are combined!

Do not be naive in underestimating the power of one and another!

You are a woman!

And as a full grown woman, you’re in charge of yourself.

I’d throw in the equation Love, interesting conversations and cuddles… travel in between, mix everything together and there you go!

It’s Magic!

You’re a happy woman!

Sounds really simple doesn’t it?

So how come it’s so complicated? 🧐

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Nothing more to say…

Yes, I get repetitive talking about Love… (it is called Love and Everyday Affairs… so I’m entitled to talk a lot about it, right?)

Sometimes I feel a bit lame because of that but it so happens it’s what I believe in as the ultimate goal in Life.

And Love has within itself different meanings for different people.

Just enjoy the journey, the learnings and eventually the accomplishments!

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Keeping it simple.

In Life, in Love, with friends.

It’s the simplest and yet most complicated finding someone who values the same things you do.

The small, everyday things.

They are a natural show.

They are a symbol of Life and Beauty.

They deserve to be appreciated by what they are.

So if you have friends like these… don’t take them for granted either.

Appreciate them also by what they are.

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Maybe you have been shamed for not being skinny enough, maybe you were told your personality was too strong (or too sweet), maybe they thought you were too much of a dreamer, maybe they made you feel, generally, like you weren’t enough. Well one thing is for sure… the right one will know what’s in front of him.

He will have the harmony, sense of humor, common sense (never underestimate common sense, as I learned it’s NOT a given 🙄) and brains to value you, to understand you.

It’s hard keeping the belief alive.

But if it’s gone, you’ll feel empty and hollow… and there’s something a human being should never feel… emptiness.

So you need that extra bit of faith, that optimism to keep you going… don’t let go of it.

It keeps you lighter, happier and smoother!

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Aaaahhhh!! I guess that would really do a miracle!

Money doesn’t bring happiness by itself but it allows to get plenty of coffee and beautiful vacations!!

Vacations usually make us happy in different ways!

Resting, discovering new places, new people, traveling itself is a bliss!! It’s challenging your mind, your culture, your pre-notions of reality!

It can’t buy the Love you’re waiting for though, it can’t buy a healthy body, it can’t buy manners.

In either case, a bag full of cash can do wonders for yourself and others!

Imagine how many people you can help and make happy?! How many loved ones and friends you can spoil (including yourself?).

So, enjoy your vacation… put your feet up, enjoy that coffee with a beautiful view, enjoy the warm sun and the cool gentle breeze.

Enjoy the thought of a lazy day ahead… now wake up and go to work! 😁

It’s ok… vacation is just around the corner and you will get all of this!

That’s all! 🎀🌻🤩✌🏻💙

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My house, my rules!

Some easier to keep than others but it doesn’t mean they’re not within your beliefs and values.

In here, I wish for lots and lots of hugs and kisses…

And chocolate of course! 🍫✌🏻❤️

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How often do we think of people we miss?

How many people have imprinted themselves in our heart and then left a big dark hole which used to be filled with golden light love?

A deep void and emptiness instead of that loud laughter and glittery eyes?

And still, how much do we want to tell them “I miss you”?

Just because we really do miss them.

Or the feeling they gave us.

One thing I can promise you… you’ll survive.

Your body keeps breathing and moving in a less wonderful world.

But since you’re still in it, it comes to a point when it’s up to you to make your world a bit brighter.

Slowly, one day at the time.

You put yourself out there.

And you start discovering a number of things.

One of them is that people don’t really talk much, other than the weather.

I wonder what would happen if people talked more, if that fear/insecurity boundary would dissipate?

Or maybe it isn’t really fear, maybe it’s just that everyone expects a certain behavior so they act accordingly.

It’s their shell and it can’t be touched.

How do we open our minds?

How do we find a common ground if people don’t lower their walls?

The magical art of communication can’t be that magical if everyone sees a barrier in it.

A conversation suddenly becomes a symbol of something complicated… it’s just so hard to find something new that your mind wanders back to the one you miss, when everything was so gorgeously simple.

Why can’t “I miss you” stand simply for what it means? Because they are powerful words full of meaning.

They can either open a conversation or close one.

It’s a full story summarized.

So we just keep it to ourselves.

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Life is the most precious gift we have.

It’s not always the way we dreamed of, it’s not in shades of blue and gold, not quite what you had envisioned for yourself. But… a life is still a life full of potential.

YOU are full of ideas, thoughts and goals.

You are worthy by who you are alone, not defined by being someone’s wife, daughter, sister, whatever.

You have inextricable value as an individual.

Of course, different people will add different things to who you are, making you sharper and more understanding.

But my point is, even if you’re alone, you still have a Life.

It’s up to you to make it useful somehow to someone (especially to yourself).

It’s up to you to ask for help if you can’t see your worth, if you can’t see a future, a way out.

You need to think of how you feel and act accordingly.

Don’t know how? Ask for help!

Once you get that help, you’ll be stronger, more at peace with yourself and the way life is.

Be strong and smart enough to move from victimization and self-commiseration to owning your responsibility in this life.

And then… then you can move on.

Then you can rise above the pain, above the disappointment, the sadness, the feeling of being utterly lost.

You rise as a confidant individual, ready to let go of the past, willing to look for the good things around you.

Ready to identify them as something truly good rather than something taken for granted.

Then you can let go of the rage, anger, fear or whatever/whoever made you smaller and hurtful.

Life is about LIVING.

Make it count.

Make your own positive statement.

Preferably with a smile on your face.

Make it your trademark.

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